Engaged or just Pregnant?

Right now everyone is engaged. I know that this is the time for my generation and we are all growing up, but dang  Really? I am a little jealous, and wonder what the hell? I never pictured my life to be like this when I was younger at all. I thought that I would at least be married by 23, but that's not the case. I know I'm not ready to be married because I'm in a lets say "situation" with my spouse. We could work if he grew up and started being a real man. What I mean by real man is want to take care of me, not always depend things on money and just to grow up. I always think that's is the only thing that is holding him back this entire time is because I don't make a lot of money. And if your in love (deep in love) why would that matter? He is greedy of his money. Sure he likes to act like he doesn't mind paying for things, but then *SNAP*  "you don't do anything" or "Give me the Keys to the car." Pshhht, whatever. I know that isn't any kind of man that a woman would want to marry and I don't either. It's just weird that girls younger than me are engaged and they don't make money whatsoever. Here I am with this guy and he is so greedy over his money that he doesn't want to marry me. Another problem in my relationship. I'm just venting to you blogger and I just don't get it.